Something which is always under the spotlight at Christmas is our relationships.

Relationships are actually the backbone of our human lives. We are all created from the ‘oneness’ of Spirit but are always attempting to find this connection, which we may unconsciously believe is lost.

Imagine that you have a very difficult relationship with someone who is really important to you, such as a parent, partner or family member. Perhaps you decide not to contact them again; you are tired of their negative attitude. But if you continue to listen to their negativity with compassion, and send them love, maybe eventually you’ll break through that shield of negativity.

You could then start to rebuild the relationship; understand what may have sabotaged it in the past, and then make sure that same old pattern doesn’t show its face again in another relationship.

We live on a planet populated with many other humans, and we’ve lived many lifetimes believing only in differences and separation, and this has become the background of our human existence.

When we can learn to look within and see the inner beauty rather than the outer differences, then the walls and fences of separation we have built can start to crumble.

Relationships are our guidebook to life; they show us reflections of ourselves; they also give us the comfort and joy we continually seek.

By forming loving relationships we restore the balance and harmony with which we and our entire planet were created.

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